After a long, difficult winter, many people will soon be preparing and heading out to get their summer cottages ready for three or four months of warm weather and family and friends’ recreation. These rural getaways here in Canada are affectionately called camps. I was recently invited to visit one of these camps, unsure of what I would discover. 

I was lucky enough to stay in a beautiful cottage on Lake Digdeguash. This is one of those rare, well-kept secrets that make New Brunswick a place of stunning natural beauty, much like Lake Utopia and the almost surreal Magaguadavic River, which winds its way to the charming town of St. George. The natural beauty of St. Andrews is a key reason why we chose to settle here years ago. In St. Andrews, most of the summer cottages along the water have been turned into serious year-round homes. But along the Digdeguash, many quiet hideaways still exist that take you back to the ‘good old days.’ 

Many childhood memories flooded back, and the relaxed vibe of our visit had a healing effect on both body and soul. Say farewell to linen napkins and welcome finger foods – plenty of them. Although small, these camps are clean, well-maintained, beautifully landscaped, and inviting. Many people own small motorboats, and a trip around the lake is soothing and unforgettable. 

Summer is a time when houseguests come in from all over the place. Families and friends travel long distances to be with loved ones, their cars and SUVs piled high with luggage, bicycles, and kayaks and filled with children, food, and pets. Being well-organized and knowing how to be a good house guest will help ensure a return invitation.

If you are lucky enough to rent or ‘borrow’ one of these camps for your private use, you’re in for a real treat. Some families often have a timeshare arrangement on jointly owned camps that have been in their family for generations.

I have had several readers send me questions about camp dos and don’ts, and so here are some helpful tips.

If you are a guest, be clear with your host about your arrival and departure times and dates. Unannounced guests are rarely a welcome surprise. How long you can stay is ultimately up to the host. Additionally, facilities such as washers, dryers, and dishwashers may or may not be available. 

Be prepared to help with household chores such as sweeping, setting the table, washing dishes, and grocery shopping, especially if you’re staying for a few days. This is a great opportunity to teach children the meaning of teamwork. Keep your sleeping area tidy and make your beds. When you leave the bathroom, ensure it’s ready for the next guest. Be mindful of hot water usage and time your showers accordingly. If you travel with pets, follow local leash laws and clean up after Rover. Many people walk around barefoot. When you leave, please make sure you haven’t left anything behind and that you leave the space as you found it.

When renting a camp, make sure you know who the rental agent is and evaluate the surroundings when you arrive. Report any issues right away. 

Also, follow the rules that are most likely posted for you on the counter or fridge. Be respectful of the camp, and you’ll enjoy it season after season.

If you are using a family camp and are part of the family, I always advise people to leave the place in better condition than they found it. Perhaps bring a new can opener or some fresh towels. Restock the bathroom closet with essentials. 

There is likely one family member who manages the finances for the camp and is responsible for replacing appliances, landscaping, and similar tasks. Make a point of checking what you can do, if anything, to help. Leave the place spotless. Remove all trash and recyclables. When families take the time to do these small things, it helps foster unity. New generations bond in new ways. Everyone appreciates arriving at a clean place. 

Most importantly, have fun! These moments create lasting memories for everyone, young and old. After all, family camps have been a tradition for generations. In these magical hideaways, far from city life’s hustle and bustle, cherished values are kept alive. 

Use these times to connect with nature, swim in clear, refreshing water, read a good book, and relax. This is how your grandparents envisioned it for you, and how you will hopefully want it for your grandchildren.

Jay Remer was raised in the United States and emigrated to Canada roughly 30 years ago. Since then, I have been involved in the writers’ community and the hospitality industry. I live in Saint Andrews, NB, and look forward to the day when healthy, civil debates bear more compassionate outcomes. Please feel free to send your questions: jayremer@chco.tv