The recent federal election generated considerable excitement during one of the most politically challenging climates in memory. The contest was fiercely competitive, and as is typical, the results were celebrated by the winners and mourned by the losers.
In kindergarten, we learned that when you win, you should accept your victory with humility; when you lose, you should gracefully accept your defeat and congratulate your opponent.
Somewhere along the way, this dynamic became skewed. Instead of offering congratulations, voices from the losing side condemn the winners as unworthy in their victory and likely to lead the entire province into a great abyss.
Surprisingly, many disgruntled individuals have used social media to express their frustrations. Although airing grievances and placing blame on others is becoming increasingly popular, direct communication is always preferable if we aim to effect change.
Prime Minister Carney firmly stated that Canada’s position is that the country will never be for sale. This declaration was no surprise to Canadians, who are coming together to make it clear to the world that we will stand united on sovereignty. Let’s hope this unity can extend to other matters of importance.
A question that comes to mind is, why is so much energy being invested in hate speech, blame, and shame in the first place? I believe this kind of behavior directly correlates with the fear and trauma that pervade our society today.
The roots of this fear lie in the misinformation we are bombarded with daily. How do we differentiate between fact and fiction?
We tend to believe in those we trust. How do we determine whom to trust?
Please share your thoughts about these three reflective questions in the comment section.
Jay Remer was raised in the United States and emigrated to Canada roughly 30 years ago. Since then, I have been involved in the writers’ community and the hospitality industry. I live in Saint Andrews, NB, and look forward to the day when healthy, civil debates bear more compassionate outcomes. Please feel free to send your questions: jayremer@chco.tv
